Age difference dating rel
We started seeing each other, I just recently found out he is 3years younger than me.
My first impression was to walk out, I felt I was depriving him of his teen years. He got shocked with the age difference, but he insisted he doesn't care about that, and was getting worked up that I even thought of that.
He's also mentioned to me that I've helped him a lot in breaking down the emotional wall that he has so expertly built and learned that I can be trusted.
What kind of advice can I get to help him understand that age doesn't matter!!
What will they think of me especially being a muslim woman. I am 19 years old and I am in a relationship with someone who is 23 years older than me. Move on because you will never be able to drag out of him what you need and the Older he gets, the more ingrained his attitude will get and the more frustrated you will get. I wrote him a six page letter telling him exactly what I was seeing and how I felt.
After I wrote him this letter he told me I nailed the part of him falling for me and backing off.
I would talk openly with him to be sure he is as "there" in it as you are, and wants the same things for the future. nothing against u, but think about it, some woman , its so dangerouse for them to have kids at 50, an this young lad is only in his 20, .
And want to fix it stay together if i can resolve my issues in my head with positive efforts & actions, Is it even possible or is it just too much? At 20, his expectations and level of committment may be different to yours at 36. hi if my sons were to come in an tell me they were dating a woman of 20 years older than them i would have to say something to them, i dont think i would be pleased for them, a 20 year old dating a 36 year old, no .I have secretly spending time with a man friend who is 48 and I'm 32. He is mature and supports my ideas gives motivation he is amazing! I know there would be weird looks and people talking, I live in a small town... I have been friendly with an older male patient who seems to defy age (he is 74, but looks like he's in his late 50's).I have only had bad relationships with men closer to my age. We have so much fun together and don't worry about drama not between us anyway. I know he has feelings but won't openly talk about. I also know it's not anyone's place to judge my life and who makes me happy. I wish people would stop criticizing each other just because they don't understand or try to see it from the other view. Recently he asked me out after hearing me tell him of my struggles with men who are immature and not motivated. (Like I said he looks amazing and in better shape than 90% of men my age. He is everything I never expected...caring, sensitive, attentive, funny, adventurous, spontaneous, successful and NEVER judges me like I have been with guys my age. I AM nervous to tell my family about him, which should be expected, but want to continue to see him.I really like him, he is an amazing person and I feel great when I'm with him. Why would it matter to you if someone much older than your son is dating him?But I get worried, thinking about how his or my family and friends will react to us perhaps in future wanting to settle down. I would not matter if they are happy and are in love. He has never been married and he does have an older son. I recently noticed that he was kind of distancing himself every time he became close to me.
I just come to learn that he still can't get over the age difference between us.