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I try hard not to feel like a victim in all of this because I understand that it’s my choice to be with him, but I can’t help feeling robbed of something that should be mine. Dear Ginger, Although Adam’s ex-wife doesn’t seem to be handling things well—and I can imagine how disruptive her texts are—this is also an issue between you and Adam, and there are several ways to make this situation work better.
Some of them are practical, which I’ll get to in a minute.
The kids’ main residence is with her, and Adam has the kids a few days a week.
The ex constantly sends Adam texts about the kids, from mundane details to complaints about their behavior.
We seem to keep having the same fights about his needy ex-wife and the negative impact she has on our relationship.
The important stuff shouldn't always fall to one person anyway. Your best bet is to call your friend and tell her what you've heard. Your daughter should never be the one in the middle. Then explain that you miss her and want to save the friendship. Please know that even if you have a great conversation with your friend and mend your broken relationship, she might prefer to maintain some boundaries when it comes to your ex. He had a job opening and needed someone trustworthy. She stopped talking to me without giving me a reason a couple of months ago.Up until this point, he and I had remained friends (we share one child). I thought my friend would work for him for a few months while she looked for a different job. My daughter said that she has seen my best friend at my ex-husband's house on different occasions. I would normally talk to This isn't a love letter, really.
But others will require you both to talk about your expectations in this relationship.