Things to look for when new to online dating interest dating sites
Even if you do like “walking on the beach” or “drinking wine in front of a roaring fire” leave it out – everyone says that.
Think of something interesting that could be a conversation starter.
I’ve talked about getting to exclusive already in my article on His Profile is Still Active: Is He Interested or Not?
I hear from more women on this topic and some of those women don’t always understand my position: that if they’re not in an “exclusive” relationship, I don’t think the man is doing anything wrong.
Here’s the approach: Be honest, caring, understanding and patient (with some limitations).
Hi So-and-so: I really enjoy spending time together and I’m wondering where you see our relationship going?
I get some great emails from people that lay out their feelings, what they hope for, and describe how confusing things are for them. Instead they’re open, honest and they just want to understand.
A lot of times I want to say to these people, “You just need to forward this email to the guy you’re dating!
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